PPP224: The Practicing Pro, Christy Hodder

Christy Hodder is a violin teacher and director of the Scotia Suzuki School of Music. She is on a mission to “help parents have effective, positive, and FUN practicing in their homes”.

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Tell us your music story.

Christy’s mother is the hero of her music story. Her mom joined the RCA record club and receive a new album every month. Christy remembers hearing amazing music in her home from a very early age. She attended an orchestra concert with her family and fell in love with the violin and knew that she wanted to learn to play.

Christy’s older sister studied flute in school but after about a year decided she didn’t want to study flute anymore. When Christy announced that she wanted to learn to play the violin her mother told her she had to learn piano first. This was likely a test to see how committed Christy would be (they had a piano and a flute, no need investing in another instrument if the child is going to lose interest after a few months). Christy faithfully studied the piano for a year to prove to her mother that she would practice and stick with it.

The next stop on Christy’s musical journey is at her local elementary school’s violin program. The program was led by a wonderful man, who, unfortunately,  knew more about the trumpet than the violin. Christy was given a violin and a method book and was basically left to her own devices to learn to play.

Christy would climb a tree in her family’s orchard with her book and her violin and would diligently practice. She progressed through the first book on her own and her mother realized that Christy needed more specialized violin instruction.

Now it was Christy’s mother’s turn to face a roadblock.  She investigated to find a qualified teacher from an area music school and took Christy to her home for an audition. While the teacher was impressed with Christy’s playing ability, she didn’t want to take her on as a student.

Christy’s mom was just as diligent as Christy so she negotiated a deal with the teacher to wallpaper her home in exchange for lessons! Well done, Christy’s mom! (everyone has a price)

What parent avatar are you?

Working from her life experience, Christy has developed a program to help parents have effective, positive, and FUN practicing in their homes. She has developed an online quiz to help parents discover their own parent avatar.

Take the quiz here.

Through her teaching experiences, Christy has determined four different types of parents:

      1. The Involved Parent
      2. The Teacher Collaborator
      3. The Group Collaborator
      4. The Community Builder
Each parent has positive parenting attributes. After taking the quiz, parents receive one area to focus on to build on their positive attributes. Christy says her mother would be considered both an involved parent as well as a teacher collaborator. She was involved in home practice and she worked with the teacher to give her daughter the best learning experience.

What parting words of wisdom or quote do you have for parents of new piano students?

“Whenever you’re having a problem, no matter what the problem is, take the instrument away…take it out of the situation.

Look at your child, in your mind, and ask, ‘What’s really the problem?’ Because it’s never about the instrument. It’s about what they’re thinking; how they’re feeling. It’s too big; it’s too hard. They want to be doing something else. It’s not inspiring to them. They want to fight with you and it doesn’t matter what it’s about.

Imagine the instrument gone and really look at the situation. Determine what’s really happening between your child and you.”

What is the best way for potential students to get in touch with you?

Contact Christy through her music school at Scotia Suzuki School of Music.

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