Each year, about this time, music teachers around the world prepare their students for recital. The question is WHY?
I can’t speak for other teachers but I’ll use this post to explain why I think a formal spring recital is important along with more details about the way my studio recitals are conducted.
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First, the WHY:
I believe one of the best reasons for a recital is simply the enjoyment of music. We often listen to music passively while driving in the car or working on other projects, so to set aside an hour to give our undivided attention to music is a gift, not only for the student, but also for each audience member.
In addition to celebrating the beauty of music, a formal spring recital is just that – formal. It provides an opportunity to reinforce all the manners parents want their children to learn and practice as civilized human beings.
- Sit still and be quiet while others are performing.
- Give your full attention to something outside yourself.
- Encourage the efforts of others.
- Applaud their efforts.
- Say ‘thank you’ with a bow when the audience compliments you with applause.
- Put away the cell phone for a while.
The second ‘why’ is for the teacher. A spring recital is a major project for most studios and we teachers take it very seriously. We want to make sure our students are prepared to be showcased at the end of the year or school term. This is also an opportunity for parents to evaluate whether their child’s teacher is able to provide the musical education they want for their child.
The final ‘why’ is for the student. Preparing for a recital increases their attention to detail. They work harder to master their piece to be able to perform it as accurately and musically as possible. Students often experience butterflies in their stomach leading up to a public performance. I believe this is healthy and that it’s good for them to learn how to deal with that feeling of being nervous in this smaller, supportive environment. They will find themselves in many similar situations as they grow up and I am happy to give them tools to not only manage their anxiety but to overcome it and use that heightened awareness to help them succeed. I’ll be talking more about this topic in next week’s show.
When and where is the recital?
Talk to your teacher to learn the logistical details of the event. My recitals are held on the first Monday and Tuesday of May. This used to be a great time because it was before final exams at school and it was ahead of the curve for many dance recitals and other end of term activities. The dance people have started having their recitals earlier now, too, so I may have to adjust my schedule in the coming years.
It has become quite an obstacle in recent years to secure a location for my recital. The church I used for years suddenly gave away their beautiful grand piano in favor of a digital keyboard. (!)
I’m not a piano snob by any means but I do think that a piano recital should be conducted on an acoustic piano.
Next, I tried the local university. They have a lovely facility with a well-maintained Steinway grand. Unfortunately, their legal team has taken over many aspects of sharing the campus with the community which added tons of fees and legal documents. I just want a place for my kids to play!
I’m telling you all this to give you a glimpse behind the scenes. Your teacher is not only preparing students to perform in the spring recital, but he or she is also working as an event coordinator as well. If you have access to an ideal recital location with a great piano for students to play, I’m sure your teacher would be delighted to hear about it.
Who can come to the recital?
Talk to your teacher. Some venues, like assisted living centers or smaller churches, have limited seating and parking.
The church I’ve been able to use the last two years has a large auditorium so my students are able to invite all of their friends and family.
The more people students have in their fan club, the more secure they will feel on the stage.
What should my child wear to the recital?
Please, parents and students, dress in your “Sunday Best”. A formal recital deserves more formal, dressy attire.
A word of caution, however, the wood floors of recital halls can be a little slippery. Students should wear sensible shoes and they should practice once or twice wearing whatever they will wear at the recital. Higher heels or a suit coat could cause unnecessary restrictions of movement at the piano.
How can I help my child be successful at the Spring Recital?
Parents, you are your child’s biggest cheerleader. Tell them how much you enjoy hearing them play. Tell them what your favorite part is in their recital piece. Skype or Facetime Grandma and Grandpa – they are excellent sources of encouragement! Create a mini home concert where your student dresses in their recital clothes and performs their piece, including a bow before and after they play. Record them performing their piece; the awareness of a recording simulates the same jitters as the actual recital.
While the spring piano recital is, I’m sure, only one of many events your student has on their calendar, I hope you will agree that is an important one. I’m looking forward to celebrating your student and their beautiful music at the upcoming recital!
Further Listening on this topic
PPP076: Helping Your Child Deal With Anxiety
PPP090: 10 Positive Messages you give your child when you attend their piano events
PPP112: Down in Front! (and other concert etiquette rules)
Tune in next week for 10 Things you should know about performance butterflies.
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